How to find your voice.

Lost in a sea of ideas and questions, we all struggle to find our voice. After months of searching, I’m finally finding mine.

When it comes to writing on the web, there are a lot of things to consider. Be it your site theme, writing style, choice of audience, topic, etc…there are a slew of questions that we, as both readers and writers, ask ourselves. Before I headed off into the great void of anime blogging, I wanted to interrogate myself and make sure that a few months from now, I wouldn’t be hating what I was doing or feeling trapped.

So what did I do to find my voice? How does it pertain to anime? And how can you find yours? Try asking yourself a few of these questions:

How do I talk to other people? What values do I maintain during conversations?

I know that my most important priority is to be a real as possible with people. I hate putting on a front or a mask or feeling like I have to pretend to be someone I’m not. If I’m having a bad day then you’ll know about it, if I’m having a great day then you’ll know about that too.

However, it’s important to me to maintain respect for those around me. While I may try to be real, I don’t strive to be an asshole or an ignorant fool. Everyone has opinions and they’re all entitled to them as far as I’m concerned. I don’t need to take my bad days out on you.

What do I strive to present visually?

I’m a jeans and T-shirt kind of guy. I don’t go out of my way to try and impress people with beauty or dazzling accessories (like watches…you weren’t think I wear jewelry were you?). I go for the simple, honest, down to earth look. One that says “You don’t have to dig through 100 layers to find out who I really am”.

At the same time, I’m not a bum. Simple and honest does not equal trashy, haphazard and awkward. I don’t go out of my way to impress, but I don’t try to play down my confidence or garner sympathy from anyone.

As you encounter people throughout the day, what impression do you want to leave?

That Riex, he was a funny guy. Humorous, but full of valid points and good, solid opinions. He never took things too far or jumped in over his head. A rational and intelligent young man full of a great deal of silly.

Any of the above statements would be welcomed at the end of a conversation I’ve had with someone. I’d love to make your day.

So now you ask yourself, how does this pertain to anime (in the case of typeZERO) and finding my voice on the web? It’s pretty simple, and once again I’ll use myself as an example.

I want to write a real opinion on anime. Without the extra fluff that I honestly don’t give a rat’s ass about. Seiyuu’s? Fuck ‘em. Directors? I couldn’t name ‘em. Studios? I could probably name 3-4 off the top of my head and maybe 1-2 shows they each did. I don’t care about that stuff enough to go research it and spend my time clicking through page after page of lists on who did what, where, and when.

What I can do, however, is bring a solid opinion on the shows that I’m watching and relate them to the tons of other anime that I’ve watched in the past. I can toss in a good deal of silly/random humor while I’m at it. Hopefully I can get you to come back here expecting a good read and a side order of laughter.

I changed the site theme to reflect this. It’s simple, it’s easy to read (big fonts FTW), and it’s has plenty of whitespace. In my eyes, it practically screams honesty. If you can’t come here for the pretty, image-filled layout, you’ve got to be coming for the words.

So try finding your own voice, honestly…you can’t be someone else and no one really wants you to be. The people in my blogroll, they all have their own voice, and they wield it well.

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9 Comments so far (Add 1 more)

  1. …How exactly did I miss this post from way back?  ;_;  Well, as for finding voice, do you want to know how long that took me?  5 stinking years.  Somewhere along the line, my ability to stand up for myself walked away and I was just screwed over.  Agh, it feels so nice to be back to normal.  I’m glad that you can be honest on the web and the impression you want to make does get through.  And real honest opinion, without all of the studio-seiyuu-director love is what I was looking for in animeblogs.  Thank you.

    1. sylvira on July 20th, 2008 at 4:30 pm
  2. @KaeBoo
    Thanks man! As for how long I used that theme…well, I guess you know now. This one will be around for quite some time though.

    @Baka-Raptor
    Too bad that theme is gone! I checked out the site you linked…lol. I love it. I actually started reading Maddox back in 2004, so anything with that brand of humor is welcome.

    @Ritchan
    Fixed.

    @Hoshi
    Yes! I make someone’s day! I’m really glad you’re here. You’re one of those awesome readers who aren’t afraid to leave more than one-liners. What’s your original state, if you don’t mind me asking?

    @Exodus
    Dude, one of your readers is me. That should outweigh any lack of readers you might have. And whenever you get a VPS, I’d love to brutalize WP themes there.

    @D.J
    I hope to be sharing many opinions on anime in the future…and I need to get back to posting those fangirl pics on THAT. Sorry!

    @Puntaku
    Hopefully Rainbow Unicorn is more your style. Annnd…the blogroll is up top now.

    2. Riex on May 15th, 2008 at 5:10 pm
  3. Always nice to see bloggers who don’t follow the crowd.
    I didn’t like the layout at first compared to the old one, but once reading your reasons I decided that this layout is totally awesome. Any layout that actually has some sort of meaning should be praised.
    Just one thing…. where’s the blogroll?

    3. Punktaku on May 13th, 2008 at 7:21 am
  4. Well you’re already hitting your aims for me.  I always enjoy your humor which is why I ventured over and really do care when it comes to your opinions on the anime.
     
     
     

    4. D.J on May 12th, 2008 at 1:43 pm
  5. I have to say, I can always relate to ya, I guess that’s why I can always count you in my ‘friends list’ which pretty much sums to a number less then ten.
    Watches, lolcopters, I got a cellphone and it has a clock on it, why would I need another clock on myself ;[ I guess I’m a no accesories kind of guy as well. I’d love to have the dedication and comedic perception you have to a topic which sums this page up in little words, but alas, I’m stuck with a low amount of readers (which I don’t care as long as I get a comment or two xD –why must we be comment whores?–) and I pretty much talk about any random thing, life anime w/e.
    Props on the theme, love it, soon, not too far from here, I’ll get a VPS, and with that, I hope to hook you, and anyone else with a beautiful wordpress server that you can tear down as you like, athough this dasaku place seems pretty sweet in addon/plugin (call it what you like) usage.
    And before I start rambling about random stuff, you got a loyal reader out of me, and cheers to everyone else that’s readin. xD

    5. Exodus on May 9th, 2008 at 4:18 am
  6. yargh. been busy in moving back to my original state from college, so i haven’t been around to read lately. interesting. The blazing words made me blink twice at first and wonder if I had gotten the wrong site, but I think I understand your idea… Words and not images: words of a true blogger, right?
    looking forward to your future posts! bring in the silliness, cause lol. your posts always make my day~

    6. Hoshi on May 9th, 2008 at 3:43 am
  7. Thanks to the super large font, I can’t read this while I’m on duty :( Will take note.

    7. ritchan on May 7th, 2008 at 6:53 pm
  8. I like the new design. It reminds me of my site before I sold out.
    Also, watches aren’t about impressing people:
    “Do you know why men wear watches? It’s because there’s a limited amount of time in the day and men need to know how much of it there is so they can efficiently allocate their man ass kicking for the day. Women don’t wear watches; they wear bracelets. Women wearing bracelets is like dropping a bus of retarded kids off in front of a taffy pulling machine. They can just stare for hours and never get bored.
    A watch says, ‘Get up and go! Move your man ass and take care of your fucking man business!’ That’s why 60 minutes uses a ticking watch for its theme song. ‘Important shit is going down and we’re about to talk about it in a fucking fastidious manner, so get the fuck ready,’ says a ticking watch. A bracelet says, ‘You’re most likely ugly, but look at how much money you’re worth!’ What a joke.”

    8. Baka-Raptor on May 7th, 2008 at 3:41 am
  9. … and you are doing a pretty good job making people hear your voice on the net, and you are indeed leaving that very opinion you aim for… to me, at least… Silly, yet rational. I like your brand of humor that’s why I’m here, reading your blog.

    … you would be using this theme for how long? It seems that you love changing your presentation from time to time. :) It adds to that kind of an almost permanent feeling that overcomes you when you start to read and ask “What the hell is Riex up to this time?” Sure adds to the fun! :D

    9. KaeBoo on May 6th, 2008 at 8:48 pm

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